Love is the principle which creates and sustains human
relations with dignity and depth. Spiritual love takes one
into silence, and that silence has the power to unite, guide,
and free people. Love is the bedrock for the belief in equality
of spirit and personhood. When love is combined with faith, that
creates a strong foundation for initiative and action. Love is the
catalyst for change, development, and achievement.
ove is not simply a desire, a passion, an intense feeling for one person or object, but a consciousness which is simultaneously selfless and self-fulfilling. Love can be for one’s country, for a cherished aim, for truth, for justice, for ethics, for people, for nature, for service, or for God. Love flows from truth, that is, wisdom. Love based on wisdom is real love, not blind love; and to discover the secrets of love is to watch the secrets of life unfold.
The basis of real love between people is spiritual. To see another as a spiritual being, a soul, is to see the spiritual reality of the other. To be conscious of that reality is to have spiritual love: each person, complete within, independent yet totally interconnected, recognizes that state in the other. As a result, there is constant and natural love. True love is when the soul has love for the soul. Love for the soul is eternal; the soul never dies. Such love is righteous, and it brings joy. Attachment to that which is perishable is unrighteous, and it brings sorrow.
Spiritual love means not dwelling on the weaknesses of others. Instead, there is concern for removing one’s own defects. The method to do that is to "check one’s own pulse " regularly to monitor how much one has adopted the natural habit of giving happiness, not sorrow, to others. However, true love from the heart also means one cannot bear to see weaknesses in another for whom there is love. There is the pure desire to correct what is inaccurate. Such correction would be carried out, on one hand, with the feeling of love, and on the other hand, with the power of words. There would be balance between the two. When there is too much force in the words or too much love, the result is not successful. If words are too sharp, another may be insulted or put off by bossiness. When one has the right balance of love and power in words, that gives others an experience of compassion, mercy, and benefit. No matter how powerful or bitter the message, it will touch the heart of the other and will be experienced as truth.
The world remembers God as the ultimate source of love, the Ocean of Love, the Eternal Flame. God gives - unconditionally - love that is imperishable, universal, and unique. Imperishable in that the love is unlimited, constantly radiating, and totally available. Universal in that the love holds no boundaries or preferences; loving vibrations emanate to all souls of all cultures, races, and creeds. Unique in that the fire of God’s love cleans the heart and soul. Those who tap into such love re-establish the bond of an eternal relationship. Those who experience the spiritual love of God - who "merge with the Eternal Flame of Truth" - are disconnected from falsehood. Such souls have learned the first lesson of universal brotherhood: that all souls have love for one another because they are children of the same Parent. That is called spiritual love.
"May the image of the family be an example to make us nations, the great human family. That is to say, we are members of an organization which knows how to face the difficulties of the moment, to overcome apparent divisions, to surmount antagonisms, because it is led by a force more powerful than any other: the force of love, which in the final analysis is the raison d’?re of the family."
Dr. Boutros Boutros-Ghali,